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guilty ! Monday, September 07, 2009 is damn bloody fustrating when i cant upload pictures ! roar ! Todayy .. jus went slacking around . & i quarrel with daddy . ))= I hated for the things he had done to me . but ...... i am still feeling so guilty. //Edited ... You can hate a person just by looking at her/him: the hair, the smile, the look, the clothes. Anything can trigger negative feelings. You just have to go with that flow and any proof that person is not horrible will have no influence on you. I don’t know if we could say a good thing about every person we’ve met so far, maybe they haven’t impressed us in a positive way, but we can most certainly bitch about all of them. There must have been something to annoy us at one point. It’s only human! For every nice gesture and person who smiled thanks to you, there is an unhappy person, someone who feels neglected or discriminated against. It’s human to be annoyed, but above that, I think it’s human to be hatable (being available for hate). We are hatable with every gesture, every choice we make and tear we drop. Because all these are movements on a map filled with people and, inevitably, when we go one way we get closer to some and estrange from others. We are, in essence, controversial. Some are more controversial than others, true. It depends on how far we move from the center of the map or, in other words, how extremist we are. And how much we show of our personality we show to others. But still, we are always lovable to some and hatable to others. That’s the breakthrough. We’re both good and evil, pleasant and repulsive, smart and stupid. It only depends on where we’re standing when we’re judging. There is no black and white. And that’s why the big picture is important: we need to see the balance between the smiles and the tears someone provokes. And the reasons. The intentions. The more information we have, the better we see the tone of gray. Anyway, we are hatable. That’s our most human trait. Every person stands for the things another one hates. That’s life. And , i’m sure it happened to you before. we’ve all disliked people, and we’ve all been disliked as well. for good reasons like silly reasons. we always say we don’t choose who we love, but we actually do. you love that person that matches all those characteristics that you’re looking for in a person. and once you find something you don’t like in someone, let’s take for example jealousy, then you’ll start questioning yourself about that person, and you’ll wonder if they’re right for you. in friendships like relationships. but then, some will say we have to learn how to appreciate someone’s flaws in order to deserve them, which is true, but at what extent would we have to do so? when it comes to a point where you have to endure someone, it might not be a good idea to simply put up with the whole situation. or let’s say you feel like something is treating you unfairly, why would you just simply put up with it? and i know, a lot of people will stick around with them, no matter how that person will treat them. some will say “but i love him”, which makes me wonder what love is. how can you love someone who doesn’t have anything good to offer to you? i know, it always seems like i’m analyzing situations, and maybe i am. i think it’s interesting sometimes to simply stop for a few minutes, and look back at things, and analyze them. it makes you grow as a person, and usually makes you a better person. why? because we learn from our mistakes. Amanda.C | |
